Comments on: Filipina Women After Marriage

By: What became of me after my marriage? « Heeding to God’s Call in IT

What became of me after my marriage? « Heeding to God’s Call in IT — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 05:45:44 +0000

[...] March 11, 2008 by yolynne What kind of woman did I become after my marriage? A very unusual question to ask oneself isn’t it?, funny but I thought about it while reading this http://filipinaimages.com/filipina-women-after-marriage/. [...]

By: nathania

nathania — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 08:51:40 +0000

issa, divorced is not good. it shows immaturity. you are given a choice to marry or not in the first place. before marrying someone, one must really scrutinized the future lifelong partner. if one sees a little bit mistake or a little incompatibility then don’t marry that person, it will save them both and their future children from future headaches and heartaches.

By: filipinaimages.com » A Filipina in Today's Society

filipinaimages.com » A Filipina in Today's Society — Sun, 20 Jan 2008 14:02:10 +0000

[...] couple of weeks ago, while uploading my post for Filipina Images dot com, an empowering Filipina website, I stumbled upon the post of Ms. Leah Cantos, [...]

By: issai

issai — Sat, 19 Jan 2008 21:15:34 +0000

this is somehow one reason why i think divorce makes sense. and this isn’t isolated to married couples, believe me.

By: A Filiina in Today’s Society

A Filiina in Today’s Society — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 17:07:00 +0000

[...] last week, while uploading my post for Filipina Images dot com, an empowering Filipina website, I have stumbled upon the post of Ms. Leah Cantos, [...]

By: mhel

mhel — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 16:09:49 +0000

sis noemi… true. i actually talked to an education doctor in this field and i have come to realize a lot about counseling since her situation has been an emotional baggage for me.

i guess i’m not the one to help her in this situation but i am still there for her as a friend. i pray though and constantly that she soon realize what she needs to do. before it’s too late.

thanks sis.

By: noemi

noemi — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 12:17:28 +0000

Mhel- at least ella has a choice she alone can decide when the time comes.

By: mhel

mhel — Wed, 16 Jan 2008 03:40:15 +0000

agreed. it was indeed wrong. there’s no justification oracceptable reason at all for violence. that’s clear. what i’m taking into consideration is the counselee’s dilemmas and her appeal for other options. if it were for me and you, it’s going to be easy decision: hiwalay agad. but it’s Ella’s life and her kids and it’s a different situation. It’s really hard to explain sis eh, i’m not justifying ella nor ned nor violence in marriage. i believe i made my point clear about that.

decision making, especially ones this big, is not simple for some people. that’s reality. i am not to force my beliefs to her… this soon though because in the future, that’s what i’m planning to do p rin, to encourage her to separate from her husband. but among the counselor’s role is to take into account also the realities and feelings of her counselee and provide options. although, i’m not exactly her counselor. i’m just a friend.

By: noemi

noemi — Wed, 16 Jan 2008 01:11:37 +0000

The husband was jealous and doubtful of her and almost beat her to death during that fight.

the law is for her physical protection and her safety especially for the children. Why stay in a marriage if the husband just beats the woman? That is very wrong. There is life outside an abusive husband. Sure marriage can be worked out as long as the husband is sane and does not do physical violence but nearly beating her to death???? that is wrong. I know of a lawyer who beat his wife and thought the wife would never act on the law. Oh was that lawyer surprised. After the temporary restraining order, the husband sat down and worked things out with the wife.See, it doesn’t mean that the marriage has to be broken. The husband has to realize that he goes to jail if he continues this abusive act.

By: mhel

mhel — Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:41:37 +0000

@leah…

thanks sis… i would check your contest again…:)